Not married yet but we just bought a house... I am grateful every day that she's in my life, and cares enough about me to endure my hobby. She doesn't mind me talking about it too much, but she has said she has a "threshold" for it, meaning she can only listen to so much at a time.
After I do a game, I'll call her to tell her I'm on my way home. One time, she said, "Who did you play?" followed by "What army did he have?" Then, "How many points was it? My God, I can't believe I just said that!" LOL