Ah well, forgot this thread even existed. But, after a year, and 5 months to the day, my girlfriend hit the road. Still haven't been able to figure out why, as about 99% of my existence went into that relationship.
And don't worry, I'm not so sad as to come crying here first, it's been about a 2 weeks, and she's moved on to another guy. It was probably just fatigue, as I can be a very difficult person to be with at times. She's happier now though, which is something that I'm alright with. Hey- at least I'm able to eat and sleep again.
Just something for everyone to remember; don't give up enough to actually lose yourself in anyone. Because believe me- after seeing my parents go through a divorce, and after giving my entire life to that girl just to have it handed back in pieces- nothing in this world is permanent. If your gaming is important to you, keep playing. If anything really, truly matters to you and makes you who you are, keep it up. They liked you how you were when they met you, so there's no need to change anything about yourself.
Lala- tell her you play. If she asks questions, give her honest answers. Don't be ashamed of yourself. Or anything that you do. I'm working on a girl now who is hard into snowboarding, and i just started it. I told her that I paint minis and she started showing me that she sketches urban landscapes. We were both kinda shy about our hobbies, but it turns out that it brought us that little bit closer.