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So the title says it all, what do you think i should do if i tell her about warhammer and she dislikes it? (as i am in a school that if you mention it your bullied to crap).
Sorry if this is the wrong site to ask this.
If a girl dislikes it, then technically, she's disliking a part of you. If she really hates it, it's not like it's hard to not talk about it and to just move it away somewhere. Just get to know her, if you get along really well, then tell her. I'm in the same thing as you. I just don't mention it, they know, but we never talk about it. I have friends at school who I talk to about it, but never mention it when others are around.
So yea, I'd probably just not talk about it, and move it out of the way. seems the best option, or find a girl who likes you for you, if she doesn't like it.
Hope I'm some help mate
Well i try basically talking to her and then i turn around and think: "shall i tell her or what" because someday she'll find out and i dread her reaction. It did help thanks.
Well, telling her would be better than letting her find out for herself. Honesty is always good. Try to lean a conversation towards it. Maybe ask about her hobbies? Stuff she does to pass time? then maybe hint towards it. Of course that's just me. You could just come out and say it
Trust me, personal experience that just saying how you feel about something can be very good
Well at the moment were are just acting as friends but i think we both know we secretly like each other i mean I'm trying to be as nice as i can. Let her borrow a pen,share a textbook,put her forward in the lunch queue then she'd always smile at me and then quickly hide it, i think shes hiding something aswell but heh?
This old problem. Sorry but i've always found this one a little bit funny.
I've not told her until she's found out, either by accident or however. The reaction i've had has been the same both times. They think its a little silly, but there not really bothered as it hasn't affected the relationship at all, and they barely noticed anyway. As long as you're not making them hear about it they dont really mind. Its not like they have to know every detail of your life. Also, if they've been with you a while, and there that shallow to break up with you over something you do in your spare time then they're a bit silly in my opinion.
You can quite happily have both. Life is for living.
On the whole keeping it quiet cause you'll get bullied issue. Just keep it quiet. Who's going to come spy on you while you're painting and gaming? no one has to know and what is it to them anyway what you do in your spare time,? If they confront you about it ask them why theyre so interested in you? it'll make them stop the questions sharpish....
Wow thanks for that, so if they know they know, life will go on i'll keep it secret, gradually tell her like what spam has said then when th truth comes out it's out, i guess?
If the girl would leave someone because of their hobby, you should leave the girl.
You make a fair point i was thinking that if she doesn't like me for who i am then what's the point?
Yea. I gotta agree with everyone here. Like i said in my first post. Fins a girl who likes you for you.