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So what rules are the offical rules for using Great kinarloc's? Ive read the apoc. ones are the current valid ones, but they only state how to use them in apoc games. While IA3 states how to use them in normal armys but gives a different cost for them.
The truth of the matter is they both are.
Imperial armour Apocalypse has a page at the back of the Tau section giving everything its force organisation chart.
The Knarloc Rules in Imperial armour 3 are now classed as "additional" rules for the Great Knarlocs. If you want to have Goaded Great Knarlocs (unmounted ones with Kroot attached) then you use Imperial armour 3 Goaded great Knarloc Rules.
If you want to use the Knarlocs without Goads or with Guns. Then use use the Apocalypse Rules for them and they count as a single 0-1 Heavy Support choice
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