Hi and welcome to LO.
I must say, I have never heard the Lord referred to as a 'she'.
They don't sell Lords with SoLs any more, just warscythes (which sucks, because WS Lords are more expensive pointswise, and a lot less useful). They need to be converted.
I myself have never had the problem- the lord I got was second hand, and the 'scythe head was already broken off, so I converted a SoL with 2 gauss rods with a chaos skull on top.